I watched the Dr Phil show today on Wedding disasters and Dr Phil said something to one of the couples that really struck me, and hopefully will stay with me. I am hoping it will help others too.

The couple had just said their "I Do" and they and 35 quests had gone out on the 3rd story balcony for pictures. The balcony collapsed. All of them had to be transported to area hospitals. Some with serious problems. Some with high medical bills from no health insurance. The couple never went on their honeymoon, and feel very guilty about the event and the aftermath of the whole thing.

Dr phil said this to them....."If you are guilty of something, or if you are to blame for something, that implies intent. Y’all did not do that."

This one statement really hit me.......I immediately thought of the issue that I am trying to deal......NO I did not have INTENT!!!!!!! I should let go of the feelings of guilt......

I am hoping that some of you that are riddled with guilt( and shouldn't be), can look at your situations and possibly let go too.....