Yes, I would do that, except she has told me that she does not want me to touch her in any way. For a while I ignored that and would give her hugs, do nice things for her, but it only made her madder and argue with me. So I just live here with her now. I guess I'm sort of like her live in doctor or assistant. My counselor told me that I have to be prepared to accept that this may be the rest of my life. So I have accepted that. It's just she keeps creating these things in her mind that never happened. The other day she called from work to tell me her boss took a swing at her in an attempt to hit her. I just wonder if what ever is wrong with her thinking ability is going to one day cause her to go off the deep end. Several months ago she thought her doctors in the ER said she had a weak heart so she got it in her mind that she was going to die soon. It just sounds like more than PTSD. I'm just confused. Her counselor won't tell me anything since there is a Dr. Patient confidentiality law. My wife doesn't want me talking to her Psych either. I just live a day at a time now. Sometimes, just minute by minute. I am suffering from depression now so I am working with a doctor to help me cope. It gets very lonely around here. I really think my wife has more than PTSD.