Sadly one of my symptoms,of my many disorders is the inability to trust anyone...even my wife of 20 years..i think i believe that she has been monogamous...but i still attack her about other men..daily....it tears me apart when it happens,but i have no control to stop it..i think shes used to it now..but it must be horrific for her and it eats me up...poor thing cant go to the corner shop without me freaking out...we know we love each other..need each other..thats all that counts.