Maybe I am a bit jaded. But IMO I think there are a very few "princes" out there and a lot of "frogs". Sometimes that "prince" turns into a "frog" after a period of time. I think that you really have to follow your gut, not your heart or head. Your gut does not lie. I have loved many, but I have been truly in-love with 3 men. All of those men were wonderful "princes" when the relationship began. Then after a while they all became "frogs".

I think that you always have to love yourself in order to make a relationship work. You can never lose yourself in your relationship. You need to continue to grow and learn new things, new hobbies, keep friends, stay active. Your "prince" not only needs to be an equal partner, but the icing on your cake!

I hope I don't sound too negative. I am not very lucky in love.

Sisu