Thread: After Trauma - Having or Not Having Children
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Old 01-06-2008, 07:20 AM
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Lisa,

I never wanted children because of my trauma, I was screwed up, I didn't want anyone to go through what I did, and just because I didn't want any. Then I got pregnant at 17. He wanted NO part of me or the baby. I wanted to get an abortion. My mother screwed around till it was too late for me, and I ended up having my daughter. Yes I loved her, but in the end I screwed up her life, because of my life.

I did at 21 make sure that I would never have another child. I had my tubes tied on Dec 21 1974. Back then I had to do a lot of begging pleading, and paper signing to have this done.

If I could do it all over again.... I would never have a child.
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