2quilt,

That is interesting because I see children hurt each other all the time and sometimes it is just to make the other child cry. I know adults do the same thing, but I always think it is a child's game more than adult behavior.

I'm not saying my view is right. I just think it is interesting the way different people can view things.

But I am just as bad. I hate it when I lose my patience with my kids, even worse than when I lose it with my husband. I swear sometimes they think my head is going to turn 360 degrees. I am still trying to figure it out myself.