Like seeks like. I'd say the two of you were certainly on the same frequency. But, in answer to your inquiry, I do seem to get along somewhat better with those who have experienced many of the types of traumatic life episodes that I have. I'm not saying all the time, as they might be having an off day and I too might be having an off day. Then it's rather rankling. Especially if one is not aware of what the triggers are that set them off. All in all it's great that you had a fun evening. We all need that comraderie on occasions to help us feel good about life in general. Glad to hear about it ... and Cheers! map9