Anthony and Trent, thank you. I must admit that I have read the threads from Trent and at various times I found that I agreed with Anthony, a few instances with Trent and at times I wanted to say "give it a rest and move on guy".

Reading your comments here now Anthony, " Never my fault I upset others.... it was all their fault." I realize that I actually learned something from this thread. I thought about some of my behaviour in the past and I guess I identified some of what I have done, (maybe continue to do) with Trent's actions.

In fairness, I must thank Trent, as Anthony wouldn't have made these statements if it weren't for Trent's posts.

So thank you both. Thank you Anthony for your wisdom and steady hand. Thank you Trent, for if you hadn't made your posts I probably wouldn't have realized an issue about myself that I needed to change, for me to continue healing.