Hi Jen! First of all, congratulations on 25 years! Way to go!:claps:

Now...as to what to do or get your husband...what does he like to do? What is something he likes to do but hasn't in a long time? Mine likes fishing. And he doesn't get to do enough of that. I would buy him a fishing pole and find a nice quiet place to go fishing. Even if he didn't catch anything, it would be time away from everything, time for him to go fishing. Heck, it wouldn't cost too much - just need a line, a hook, and some bait (check the local laws on fishing licenses, though).

Find something that he likes to do or used to like to do and start there.