Hey jen, congrats here too! the fact that you want to make him happy and are trying to help him with his ptsd is wonderful. don't take it personally that he doesn't want to celebrate, there was a while i didn't want to do anything,, either. it goes with the territory. just assuring him that you do love him still helps a lot, i know i worry constantly that my hubby will get fed up with all this junk that goes with ptsd and want out. he has told me and shown me many times that is not the case. we have a tendency to feel unlovable, i think. something quiet and relaxing would be good-maybe a candelight dinner at home, with some nice calm music, followed by a nice massage, just some quiet, "quality" time.