Both sound great as it is quiet and low stress. But as often as my back hurts compared to how much I love to fish... I would have a hard time picking which! But the nice quite time home sounds good with a massage to help relieve stress! I romantic moving card.

He may say he does not want to do anything. Meanng he is in the dumps and can't to put forth the effort. Depression sucks. Do it anyway and tell him his gift to you (because he will feel like an ass not giving back) is that he is OK and still with you to make to the 25th and that is all you could ever want! Say it before he has a chance to say I did not want to do this and I did not get you anything. Or maybe better yet a thank you card for the gift of still being here with you the best gift you could get type thing.

We may push our spouses away but we still want the love and know we are loved no matter how assy we act. And we can do a number at times.