Jen,

I am sorry that things have gone this way for you. I agree with Anthony, your husband needs help but you also need support. At some stage he has to stand on his own two feet and take responsibility, YOU can't make him better. Hopefully the psych will be able to straighten things out a little - perhaps he needs to go to hospital to have a break. Let us know how things go and keep posting as you need to.

BIG hugs, I bet you feel really sad right now. My thoughts are with you.