Veiled:

Please excuse me, as I think I may have asked you this before, but is your daughter in counselling???

From what you have written, your daughter is rewriting history to conform to her "idealized" reality and she is building an unhealthy perception of male/female relationships. (ie: everything is woman's fault, which is the basis of domestic violence perceptions)

I would suggest taking her diary into therapy with her and using it as a stepping stone to open up these issues...

Bec