You took the words out of my mouth bec. I reckon you could take a month out of therapy and use that money to put her through some, because if she comes better, hence so do you without the extra stress, so you should cope just fine for a month or two without therapy IMO to swap with your daughter who is sounding so much like she needs it now, before she ends up in hate relationships, or worse, becomes easy prey as such for the more sadistical minds this earth has forsaken us with. The black lipstick just really threw it out there to me also... she needs it now IMHO... hotswap sessions maybe!