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Anonymoose
12-11-2007, 12:15 PM
Last night, I missed the 11:34 pm train by just minutes. I decided to go to a nearby cafe and use the internet for 45 minutes until it was time to go back to the station to catch the train.

I took the elevator to the train platform and arrived there at about 12:20 am. Twice I spoke with a man who I didn't know. He seemed intoxicated and I didn't feel safe with him. He asked me for change, twice, and I refused. Later he came back and asked me what time the train was due to arrive.

I overheard him discussing the impending arrival of the train with another passenger. They both indicated that they saw the lights on the front of the train as it approached. Then the man who spoke to me said that he was going to stand on the tracks. He jumped down onto the tracks and stood facing the train. I was very close to him and I could see his face. He would not be dissuaded from standing there as the train came into the station.

I did notice a change in his facial expression when he realized that the train was coming quickly. He tried to climb back up the side of the platform. I saw his face as he slid back down onto the tracks. He tried to press himself against the side of the platform. I saw the train hit him. I heard him scream and I saw his face as he spiralled three times before his facial expression froze and his voice was silent.

I already have PTSD and this was the last experience that I needed to have at this time of the year. Conveniently, I began taking Zoloft a few weeks ago in response to symptoms that I was having. I am still feeling strange and I don't know what else to do. I'm going to call a social worker who I saw in the past and try to make an appointment for some therapy. I don't know what else to do, though. I'm trying to practice healthy self-care by sleeping enough, eating and drinking (though I don't feel like it), journaling, talking to a hotline counselor, and meditating.

I was so happy to find this forum. There is strength in numbers and it would be great to enjoy some social support during this now-more-difficult time of year.

Thanks!

splost76
13-11-2007, 11:38 AM
Anonymoose,
Just wanted to say hello, and hope you find some comfort here, and maybe help along the way.
splost

She Cat
13-11-2007, 07:04 PM
Welcome to the forum....

I hope that you find the support that you seek, this is a great place to be.

anthony
13-11-2007, 07:29 PM
Welcome to the forum anonymoose....

becvan
14-11-2007, 01:26 AM
Welcome to the forum!

bec

goingonhope
14-11-2007, 03:35 PM
Hello :hello: Anonymoose, and Welcome to the forum!

Hope

nie
15-11-2007, 02:41 AM
Welcome to the forum Anonymoose

veiled
15-11-2007, 08:54 AM
Welcome to the forum, I hope it can help some.

two_isles
15-11-2007, 03:51 PM
omg...wow.
NOT a way one wants to end the day.
Me thinks you did the best for yourself, as could be expected.
Let us know how you are fairing.
take care

vst
18-11-2007, 09:10 AM
Hi and welcome to the forum.

The plan you described to cope with the bad ending to your day sounded like a good one. Just what my social worker would have prescribed and she is the very best.

A big hug,

vst

Anonymoose
16-07-2008, 11:19 AM
Thanks so much for your support and good wishes. My symptoms have continued to worsen over time. I've tried three antidepressants and am enjoying some relief from Trazodone (at least I can get to sleep before the sun rises). Talk therapy doesn't seem to be helping very much. Now, it seems that I've lost my most significant relationship partner. I set healthy boundaries for myself and he ignores them. He deliberately triggers me. It's bad enough that I'm losing his emotional support and companionship without losing his financial support as well. I can't find even a P/T position in retail or food service. It looks as though my life is going down the toilet. I can't afford an inpatient program and am rapidly running out of resources. I think that this change in my life is for the best but I'm not eager to endure the suffering that may accompany it.