Hi Porkyrees,
I am trying my best to be brutally honest with him in my marriage counseling sessions. The therapist is doing his best to get some communication going, but until I get some help from some meds, I simply cannot be in the same room as my husband for very long.

I'm not going anywhere for now. In fact, if anyone is going to leave for awhile, it is going to have to be my husband. I don't think I can handle the trauma of moving. He has suggested it, but I'd rather not endure even that trauma; rather be on meds so I can work through it and not upset things even further.

It is such a total drag to have him be the trigger. He knows he is and although he's having a rough time with it, he knows it's worse for me. He can at least distract himself and not think about it constantly.

I can hear a lot of experience with this in your post. I know it would be worse to be on my own, and I totally appreciate your thougtfulness at reminding me of this.

Thank you,
Moki