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Old 19-05-2007, 04:26 AM
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Kara, just be strong, self talk is something you have to practice at, it took me months to catch on to that, I had that talk with my therapist, " are you sure I am doing this right, it isn't helping". As for the flashbacks, remember, you don't have to live it over that way, the way it happened again, change it, kick, run, scream, fly away. I will myself to fly away everytime I see the assult flashback. At first he would still chase me and catch me everytime and eventually my brain let go of that and now I fly away and leave him behind.
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Old 19-05-2007, 03:15 PM
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Wildfirewildone- Thanks for the reply... and im having a hard time getting over my parents not protecting, but hey, maybe one day that'll change....and i am having a better day today actually, going out tonight for the first time in a while with some friends so lets hope my anxiety doesnt get the better of me!

Monarch- Thanks also for the reply....ive realise now that it will take time, but im still secretly hoping for something that'll fix it right this very moment...And i never thought of trying to change the flashbacks before, anything is worth a shot!
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When my anger hit full force, everyone around me could leave my side, but it was me who wanted to leave me and obvious could not.
Anger is an emotion and needs to be used as well. To me because of what I went through, what you are going through is normal. You need to vent that anger, after anger you will get moments of shear satisfaction.
Try not to punish your self for being angry. I know its scary, but its the side of you that needs attention right now.
Hope it helps to know you are not alone.
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