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Old 03-08-2007, 09:52 AM
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Thank you Anthony and She cat. I know i was just a kid and He........a sick adult. i am really hard on myself about everything and i am working on giving myself a break. The forum has really helped a lot too.
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Pandora,

I know how hard it is to not take guilt on. Victims tend to do this. We just need to take a step back and look at the whole picture through the eyes of an adult(not the victim)

As an adult you know that a child is helpless to stop a predator. They will do what they want, and will use any method to scare us into not saying anything.

As an adult you know how sick these people are.... When you start trying to take on guilt, try and remove yourself from being the victim, and feel as the adult that you really are. A strong woman, that knows the difference between being a helpless child, and a sick predator.

You will get there.....

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