ahaha, a "shitter" must be a NSW word. Over here the boys call them "bunkies"
Glad to hear some of the mess has miraculously been tidied up. I imagine it made him feel good once he had done it too.
So you are hosting dinner on Christmas Eve, that is semi-exciting (or not.. LOL). I hope that Alex is in a frame of mind that he doesn't let that overwhelm him. Sorry to assume, but I don't know how "stable" or "content" he is right now... or much about him at all. All I know is if we were having my hubby's family over we would BOTH be freaking out!
Hope you all have a nice time.