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Old 23-02-2008, 02:07 AM
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Default "Back From The Front" by Aphrodite Matsakis

I have not yet read this book, however I have ordered it for myself and my family to read. It is about the impact of combat trauma on the spouse and family, as well as the veteran. Dr. Aphrodite Matsakis has worked with PTSD sufferers for over 30 years and is the author of "I Can't Get Over It" which many consider to be a PTSD bible of sorts.

Matsakis says her book is intended to provide information on several key points:
  • reactions to combat trauma and ways to assess their severity
  • communication guidelines for talking to veterans and with children about combat-related issues
  • ways of encouraging veterans to seek help, as well as various types of help available.
  • tools to help family members assess if their veteran, child, or they themselves need some kind of help, including counseling or therapy.
Considering her past works, I thought perhaps this might be a good book. Here is its page at amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/Back-Front-Combat-Trauma-Family/dp/1886968187

I will certainly let everyone know what I think once I have read it.
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Kathy, you are an angel in every sense of the word. You help us here and you take such good care of your daughter.

If everyone could be so lucky to have a person like you in their lives, less people would be suffering.

I admire you and your dedication
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Old 25-02-2008, 01:43 AM
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Thank you Tammy, that most definitely made my morning.
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I just want to say that I totally agree with Tammy. I only wish my parents were more like you and Jim. (Especially my mom). You are truly awesome people!

My best to you and yours, Morgan
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Old 26-02-2008, 01:53 PM
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Thank you Morgan, I am touched. I would not say I am perfect by any means however I do try. I am sorry for the problems you have with your mother. I had lovely parents myself, and I always feel badly for anyone who does not. I cannot fathom it to be honest. Though considering the number of children Jim and I had in our home whilst we were foster parents, I know that sadly, it is fairly common.
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thanks kathy! let me know how it is, then i will probably order it.
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Old 27-02-2008, 09:13 AM
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I received the book today, and it looks interesting thus far. I have only read one chapter however so I don't feel comfortable commenting just yet! I will comment on this again in a few days.
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That's weird, I just ordered her book "I can't get over it", and it arrived Monday and yesterday I started to read the first chapter, although I found it made me uncomfortable so stopped.

The contents page looked like it would be informative though so I will keep perservering.
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Don't give up on that book Awakening, it is excellent. One of the best I have read regarding PTSD.
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