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Old 15-04-2008, 06:04 AM
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I think I need to be understood. There is a serious lack of understanding in my home and it hurts like hell! Other than that I have to think about it. Most of what has already been said here rings true for me too.
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Old 15-04-2008, 01:14 PM
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As I said, I'm going to break this down into physical, social, and emotional needs.

Physical:

I need regular sleep with appropriate length.
I need to be sure I eat.
I need to get outside to BREATHE.

Social:

I need safe gatherings of people I know.
I need to be respected and treated kindly.
I need clear communication in both directions.
I need sincereity and frankness.

Emotional:

I need to be accepted for what and who I am.
I need to be understood.
I need security - financially, physically, and emotionally.
I need to be independent.
I need alone time and quiet.
I need open space and exits.

Well, that's a stab at it anyway. What I found interesting as I thought of this was defining a need instead of a desire. I've basically shut the door for relationships, though I have the desire to be loved unconditionally, I don't know that it's a need? I did manage to open the door a crack this year but it was slammed in my face. I may get there one day soon, who knows.
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Old 15-04-2008, 02:19 PM
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I need to accept that I am loved
I need to move forward with my life
I need to accept myself as I am
I need to have relationships with people who tell the truth
I need to not always put others needs ahead of mine
I need to recognize what my needs are and help myself. All my life, I have been there for others no matter what the cost (not referring to $) and neglected myself
I need to put myself than family first
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Old 17-04-2008, 02:05 PM
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As time goes by and I step further out of my self, I am discovering that I need someone in my life. I'm not quite sure what this actually means, but I am feeling an emptiness in myself that I am not familiar with.

I feel alone or is it lonely? At this point I am not sure. I do know that there seems to be a need of some sort that I am missing. Identifing this need will be my next journey.

It is somewhat confusing because I don't feel that it is a mate I'm missing. I am just not sure what this need is that I feel
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