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Old 18-11-2006, 09:40 AM
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I agree with Veiled:
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I seriously think a threat to sign a child over is an attempt to save the child from him.
This is such a crappy situation. We really can't tell you what to do. I do want you to know that more than likely, he will never be the same again. The man that you once knew is gone. The man that you love, is it him now or then, or both? Such tough questions. Basically, it comes down to this: Do what you got to do.

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I would say it has more to do with his irrational thought patterns he would currently have, opposed to any real significance in the term itself. To say the words are a trigger, would have to related directly to the trauma itself, as batgirl stated in regard to hers. That is relevant... opposed to just clutching at straws and making excuses for irrational thoughts and behaviour.

I would say it is more to do with his current emotional state, and that he really just doesn't know what to do with the words, how to interpret them, feel them or even understand them anymore. It is part of PTSD with agoraphobia and other issues that draw us away from others, which also entails issues with acceptance, positive comments and so forth. Self esteem has a lot to do with it in the mix.
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