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Old 18-10-2006, 08:10 PM
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You first YA... you first. Take care of you, then everything else comes afterwards.
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Old 18-10-2006, 10:26 PM
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Old 18-10-2006, 10:28 PM
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Old 19-10-2006, 01:35 AM
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I've got a headache that won't go away today- have cough and cold. Found out yesterday that the bloke that caused trauma might not be out in the community like i thought, but could have be in medium secure mental hospital for the last 16mths.- Not sure how i feel about it. Think i need to find out for sure. Have i been unnecessarily stressing/panicing for no reason all this time? Have i just wasted all that time?
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Old 19-10-2006, 03:30 AM
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Is there an action you can take to find out his location? When do you feel most unsafe?
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Old 19-10-2006, 03:56 AM
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Have i been unnecessarily stressing/panicing for no reason all this time? Have i just wasted all that time?
Hey Darkskies,

I know that when my wife KNEW her tormenter was locked up, she still had anxiety and explosive episodes. She still broke out in a cold sweat and got the most heartbreaking fearful look on her face every time the doorbell wrang. So don't kick yourself too hard, even the absolute knowledge that they can't get to you doesn't seem to stop those feelings.
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Old 19-10-2006, 06:20 AM
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Boo -i've contacted victim support via email- i know they talk people through going to court and what happens after sentancing. am awaiting a reply. i've considered phoning up the mental health centre he was meant to be attending and asking them in a sinario situation. i know they couldn't tell me specifically about him because of confidentiality, but maybe they could say what would be likely? It's knawing at me, i don't no whether i'm being rational about it - i think maybe i should hold off calling for now and then if it's still bothering me, consider it again.

Kim's man- when i got told i was sure it would make a difference and thought that the fear would go away, but what you said makes sense. i don't know what difference it would make, if any. i think i would feel relief, i can see what your saying, knowing it and feeling it are two different things.

? i'm looking for the quick fix, when there isn't one.
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Old 19-10-2006, 07:03 AM
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crappy day today...got home around 7 pm

messed up a midterm...just couldn't remember stuff...even though i studied hard...generally though...school's not going well...already waaay behind...grrrrr so that's keeping me a bit depressed especially when i remember the time (waaay back) when i used to be ahead of schedule all the time...
I am so with you on this. I dropped two classes just last week to help me catch up. I used to be Miss organized and ahead of schedule now I'm like what text book, what subject? Grr. I'm trying to adjust myself and my workload to what I am capable of now...

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Old 19-10-2006, 12:49 PM
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Today was pretty good. I went FISHING. Did not catch a thing. It was cold and wet. Spent most of the time huddled under a piece of plastic trying to stay dry. Ended up falling asleep (mind you I worked graveyard last night and only got a couple hours sleep before I went in). But fishing, no matter how tired I am is always worth it.

Besides now I am nice and relaxed so hopefully I will be able to sleep later. That would be a treat.
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Old 19-10-2006, 02:58 PM
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Not so good day. :cuckoo: Missed my respon. at kids school. Slept through it. Isolated much, incl. even from husb. & kids. Son was being annoying. Also, he did something, in my face, that triggered me and I just needed to get away, so I asked husband to take kids shopping after school. He did and took them out to eat and went through the bedtime routine with them. I did kiss them goodnight and I did do some work. Things have improved this evening. Read and printed much on forums, FAQ, announc., Misc. ect. as I comprehend well and my att. last's longer reading print. Feeling deeply grateful for this forum. Sleepy now, hope I can get some sleep. I have 2 pressing concerns eating at me and I don't know what to do but postone them. ttfn
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