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26-12-2006, 10:46 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: north of San Francisco, CA, U.S.A.
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How do you get the nightmares to go away? (for the PTSD sufferer)
How do you get the saddness inside to go away?
ranger has nightmares, and is sad. how do I help him? I battle depression myself. We are both on meds, see DR's, etc. |
26-12-2006, 01:32 PM
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You have to chip away at the trauma. What you mention are the symptoms of the trauma. You can bandaid the symptoms all day long, but they just go and come back, often with more force, because you must treat the cause, not the symptom. The cause is the trauma, nothing else. |
26-12-2006, 09:40 PM
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OK, new spin. I have a teenager who has dealt with every aspect of this. I know my 2 middle kids have anxiety issues... oldest who has been exposed to most seems most put together, and I do not want the toddler this way (like the 13 and almost 9 yo). I now after the move I have the oldest and youngest. What is the risk factor for kids getting this?
Sadly my son does what he can to watch for me especially now he is the same age as I was on my own and only a year younger than I was when pregnant with him... He knows. So he is getting big and protective of me. |
26-12-2006, 10:37 PM
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The risk is very low if emotions are truly discussed, and not just the surface of the problem. True emotionally depth often means pain, vunerability and so forth, and unless children grow up in that environment to begin with, often you will only peel the layer off, not get to the core, which then means the chances increase that they will suffer depression, panic attacks and so forth. Talk is what its all about... ridding ourselves off negative emotions. If a child is talking to a friend even, and that discussion is at the core of their emotional issues, then the emotions are out of them atleast. Its only when they are bottled up the risk increases. |
26-12-2006, 11:05 PM
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well, the teen boy certainly does not bottle up, if any thing some of what he says about his dad disturbs me! He lets me know when he is upset with me and we alk about it. Don't think he gets it but he seems to put on a good act. |
27-12-2006, 11:23 AM
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Then that is healthy veiled, and very little chance of attributing secondary PTSD as a result. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | 
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