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Old 06-10-2006, 11:02 PM
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Hey Jods a box of chockies would make me very happy as well no I am not a flowers girl at all. I am really good at letting flowers die before their time. My poor pot plants dont have much hope at all. A friend once gave me a fern and said you cant kill them they grow anywhere poor fern had no chance at my place:)
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Old 07-10-2006, 12:20 PM
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Well here we are again a lovely day outside I have been doing my yearly cyclone clean up outside before I go and have a game of golf. I make so much noise outside his bedroom window surely he can hear me banging and crashing outside.
But its weird I am cranky that he wont get out of bed but in another way I dont want his help and I dont need his help.I know if he got out of bed before his time he would be painful so he can stay in there as far as I am concerned.
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Old 07-10-2006, 05:14 PM
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Hi Jen
Enjoy your golf game!
I swear its the weather or last nights full moon. My hubby has hit his wall today too. I told him to go & lie down in our room.
I think he may have had too much of a full-on week & now its catching up with him. The funny thing is that HE feels guilty for not being able to function for the day. I told him the best thing he can do is go & rest because today is the only day he will be able to.
Enjoy your time away from your hubby & have some fun!
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Old 07-10-2006, 10:26 PM
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Hi Jods thanks for your well wishes. Sounds like your hubby may have just needed a rest after all the excitement.
Weird isnt it how they cant cope with things like they used to?
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Old 07-10-2006, 10:36 PM
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Hi Jen
I know what you mean. I suppose the hard part for us is that things we do everyday (get up,shower,eat, leave the house etc) is hard for them.
I admit that I tend to forget that, especially if hubby seems to be having a "good" day. I have to remember that if he's done too much it takes about 2/3 days to recover.
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Old 08-10-2006, 10:43 AM
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Hi Jods thats right apparently the everyday things are hard for them to do and when hubby is having a good day which doesnt happen much anymore I tend to get all excited and probably push him to far to ask for his help with things.
I am still having trouble understanding how it can be to hard for him to want to do anything I relly hope things change in the near future as I am not going to spend the rest of my life like this!
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