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Old 01-07-2007, 10:55 PM
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Thank you Anthony, that is a very useful piece of information for dealing with Evie as well. She doesn't spend or drink, however she does become obsessed with various matters to the exclusion of all else. We did not think of it as a distraction either, but it makes perfect sense.

Jen, the spending is a scary thing, it can get out of hand so quickly. I do hope you are able to manage all right until you are fully rested and can help with the business once more.
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Old 02-07-2007, 11:14 PM
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Thanks Kathy I am starting to feel a bit better. I have a review with surgeon on Tuesday and if things are going ok I plan to start back at work a couple of hours a day. As Anthony said Hubbys cup is running over and he is not handlings things so I can help out a little bit hopefully!
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Hope you get good news from your doctor Jen.
I know your hubby is struggling at the moment but remember to keep an eye on your cup too!
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Old 03-07-2007, 09:12 AM
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That goes for me as well Jen. Hope your results with the surgeon are positive. You deserve for things to settle down a bit, on all fronts.
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Second the thoughts of others Jen. Hope all will be well for you very shortly.

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Old 05-07-2007, 11:52 AM
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Thanks for your kind words guys Doc said I am doing well and can start to do few things and if I am tired or it hurts stop so I need to listen to my body!
Hubby has been ok for a couple of days it really is day by day!
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Just remember not to push yourself then Jen.
Like the doc said, listen to your body. Not do what your hubby does & ignore any signs, you have seen first hand what can happen if you don't do anything.
Enjoy the good days when they come!
Glad to hear you are getting stronger.:)
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:07 PM
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Thanks Jods yeh I still get tired and uncomfortable at times. Not ready for work yet but help out by doing bit of paperwork at home. I wont be pushing because as you said we have seen what happens!
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Good news about the doc Jen. However. Hope you're still taking it easy. Glad your husband's been better again. Day by day is right!

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Thanks for your support guys! The doc has put him on different tablets another type of antidepressant he said he will not start taking them until the weekend as the last time he changed tabs he was really bombed for a few days!
He seems to be not as moody over the last week its weird the daughter has moved out of home she was no trouble we loved her being here. But our relationship seems a little bit better?
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