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15-12-2007, 09:24 AM
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| | Way to go for you both! | 
15-12-2007, 09:29 AM
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| | Well done to you both.... huge congrats. | 
15-12-2007, 09:45 AM
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| | Well done to you both. Keep up the good work with the baby steps :) | 
15-12-2007, 04:06 PM
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| | Well done to both of you especially during this time of the year. | 
15-12-2007, 11:53 PM
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| | Well done to you both Bec! Jim and I are most happy for you! | 
16-12-2007, 08:57 AM
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| | Great job for both Matt and you, Bec! Baby steps are the only way we learn to walk & run. | 
22-12-2007, 04:36 PM
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| | Thanks everyone! Very much appreciated.
Matt has been very very ill. He has viral bronchitis. I had brought him into emerg last week and he just needs rest. I had thought he was better but took a turn for the worse on Wednesday. He's been home resting since then.
My eldest son Chris is also here until Sunday. I haven't seen him since May, so this is a lovely visit. I can honestly say I'm in a happy bubble in my house! lol Matt is very thrilled. I don't think I could have made a better X-mas for him than this.
However, Matt wants to go shopping with Chris and I. I haven't been able to let him. He is so sick and he only lasts an hour when not ill. I am afraid that if I let him go to a mall, he will pass out cold on me.
Tomorrow night we are going to go and look at all the X-mas lights and head over to Ryan's to meet his hoard and play video games. Hopefully Matt will be able to handle it.
I have to say I am rather worried about him. He seems to be under more stress than usual. I think that the holiday may be affecting him. I know that Chris here is an extra stressor although good.
I'm a basket case myself. I've been shopping non stop for weeks, which is well over my pushing limits. Family in, Chris here, Matt sick etc.. It's adding up.
I think I just needed to type it out a little and see in black and white the whole situation to kinda see it all.
bec | 
22-12-2007, 06:22 PM
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| | Take care Bec | 
22-12-2007, 10:20 PM
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| | Tis the season Bec. Only a few more sleeps now & it's all over.
Hope Matt is getting better & you have a good time with your boys.
Take care & hope you have a great Christmas. | 
27-12-2007, 03:11 AM
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| | Thanks!
Chris left on Sunday. We had a great visit. Matt and I had X-mas alone. We recorded opening our presents X-mas morning to send out to family. It was rather fun. We had a very quiet and relaxing day. I think this is the first time I haven't been a stressed out wreck on X-mas! It was very nice and Matt and I enjoyed it a lot.
Today, Matt was wandering around and told me he can't think. He said he's trying to think but can't. It's just blank. LOL so I told him not to think. He looked at me like I was nuts. I explained to him that sometimes we just need a break from that and to go and do something that he could just blank out on for awhile.
He's off making Bionicles now! lol
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