Donate for PTSD
Donate - PTSD Forum is quite costly to run, maintain and improve. All donations are appreciated.
New To PTSD Forum
FAQ's - All you need to know contained in Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ).
PTSD Forum Extra's
PTSD Forms - PTSD Forum provide a PTSD assessment and self analysis form.

PTSD Learning - Contains some PTSD learning information and presentations.
Recommendation
Firefox Browser PTSD Forum recommends the use of Firefox Browser with Search Status add-on, plus your countries relevant English dictionary add-on. This enables forum members to spell check and remove typical toolbars from their browser.

Go Back   PTSD Forum > Break The Ice > Chat - General
Register Blogs FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #21  
Old 26-11-2007, 07:14 AM
2quilt's Avatar
2quilt 2quilt is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: New Mexico, USA
Posts: 804
Blog Entries: 40
2quilt is a jewel in the rough2quilt is a jewel in the rough2quilt is a jewel in the rough
Default

I am so happy for you and your family! You must have a million questions for each other, and want to know every little detail of what each other missed during those lost years. No doubt there will be many tears. Be gentle.
I bet Kathy, Jim and Evie can give you some good personal perspective on what to expect after regaining a family member after a long absence.
Keep breathing!
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 26-11-2007, 09:01 AM
Nam's Avatar
Nam Nam is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: midwest
Posts: 959
Nam is just really niceNam is just really niceNam is just really niceNam is just really niceNam is just really nice
Default

Beautiful....*tears brimming*
Reply With Quote
  #23  
Old 26-11-2007, 09:10 AM
Jim's Avatar
Jim Jim is offline Gender Male
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Netherlands Antilles
Posts: 757
Jim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of light
Default

Marvelous news, got a tear in the eye myself. I well remember, that first phone call is priceless. Congratulations!

Jim.
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 26-11-2007, 09:34 AM
Grama-Herc's Avatar
Grama-Herc Grama-Herc is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Florida, USA
Posts: 1,107
Grama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really nice
Default

Jim, you sound like you speak from experience about a first phone call. Care to share if I'm not being to nosey
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 26-11-2007, 09:41 AM
Jim's Avatar
Jim Jim is offline Gender Male
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Netherlands Antilles
Posts: 757
Jim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of lightJim is a glorious beacon of light
Default

My apologies, suppose I should have explained. Just weeks after Evie's trauma, she disappeared whilst still in hospital. No note, no trace. Just ran off. No contact for 5 years. Given her physical condition, we weren't certain if she were dead or alive. So. When she finally called me, it was marvelous. I still recall that moment fondly.

Jim.
Reply With Quote
  #26  
Old 26-11-2007, 01:09 PM
Grama-Herc's Avatar
Grama-Herc Grama-Herc is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Florida, USA
Posts: 1,107
Grama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really nice
Default

Oh Jim, I am so sorry. No wonder you understand! I have not had the opportunity to hear your story or get to know you so I was unaware. Is she Ok now? In fact now that I recall, someone mentioned you and how you would understand and could possibly help smooth the reintroduction process for me but I did not understand what it meant.

You are right, words can not explain the feeling. I absolutly could not breathe for 2 days and in fact it is still very fresh. She called us Friday evening. My heart skips beats, my head spins and I can't breathe. Tell this to a doc and he would think I was having a stroke or something. My head feels like it is going to simply explode. I am experiencing the strangest kind of elated anxiety? I just don't know what to do first.
I tryed to shop for a few groceries this morning, well that was a joke. I can't concentrate, I just keep thinking OMG she called---OMG she is OK---OMG there is a new baby girl and then the weeping starts. Joyous elation mixed with some fear that if I say or do the the wrong thing it will all go away again. I should act normal, but what in the hell does that mean. Oh Jim, I am terrified I'll loose her again. How do I get over this intense fear and not let it get in the way?????
Reply With Quote
  #27  
Old 27-11-2007, 05:06 AM
veiled's Avatar
veiled veiled is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: U.S.A. Kansas
Posts: 3,540
Blog Entries: 1
veiled is a splendid one to beholdveiled is a splendid one to beholdveiled is a splendid one to beholdveiled is a splendid one to beholdveiled is a splendid one to beholdveiled is a splendid one to behold
Default

I can't answer anything, but did want to say congrats ;)
Reply With Quote
  #28  
Old 28-11-2007, 06:09 AM
Grama-Herc's Avatar
Grama-Herc Grama-Herc is offline Gender Female
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Florida, USA
Posts: 1,107
Grama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really niceGrama-Herc is just really nice
Default

Well, my OMG moment is really beginning to become a reality. Went to the grocery store, forgot why I went when I discovered I was in the infant isle loking at baby booties. Never ever thought I would be there looking AND glad!!!

All of you guys have been so much help to me. If I did not have you guys to talk to, this could actually be sad. To have such a blessing and no one to share it with sounds so very sad and lonely. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the opportunity you have given me to share and be proud and do some well deserved bragging.

I can hardly wait untill I see pics or even better hold this little bundle of love. To actually be able to look into my daughter's eyes and know for sure she is safe will be, no doubt, the greatest day of my life except maybe the day she was born AND the day I hold my grandchild for the first time.

Again, you guys will never know what your support and encouragement has meant to me. THANK YOU Grama Herc
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks
Digg del.icio.us StumbleUpon Google

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off