Hi Dercidog, your in the right place. I got your email from using the contact form, though this is your notification that you're in the right place and posting correctly. I understand that you may be anxious at present, though if you slowly read through the topics in the "
new member" forum, you will get a full understanding of how the forum works, especially as a new member.
Forums can be quite complex if you're not used to them, and it takes time for you to learn. Once you do though, you will be just fine. Keep posting and talking here, and people will respond. Read threads and respond to them if relevant to yourself.... you will find the support and understanding needed here.