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28-01-2008, 04:21 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: USA
Posts: 260
| | PTSD and Marriage - How Many Times Have You Been Married? I am on my 3rd and finally got it right. The 1st was right but I was to immature to appreciate what I had till, I lost him. Second was a nightmare surely made me appreciate 3rd.
sunnydaze | 
28-01-2008, 06:42 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Florida, USA
Posts: 1,236
| | My marraiges
I have had 4 and seenm to be stuck on the number 7! 1st one lasted 7 months, 2nd one lasted 7 years, 3rd lasted 7 months and the last one--biggest disaster of all 7 weeks! I was single between # 3 and #4 for 13 years. #4 was a scam artist who was of the impression there was money around. He thought he had a pigeon with $$$$$ Boy was the joke on him! LMAO He saw me and my weakness and I'm sure I was acting emotionally needy
He was a true con artist cuz he even fooled my mother and that is hard to do! It didn't take me long to catch on and I threw his ass out in a big hurry.
My therapist has given me permission to not have men in my life. Which is ok with me. Besides, if I get the urge for a man in my life I'll just get another cat.
Someday I will go into the other 3 marriages and what they were all about | 
28-01-2008, 07:17 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Oranjestad, Aruba
Posts: 2,305
| | Where's the poll part? Anyways, I have never been married, yet... I hope though that when I do get married it is the first and last time, like my parents!! It sounds tough to be married more than once. | 
28-01-2008, 08:29 AM
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Posts: 2,246
| | I've been very lucky or I married the right man first time out...or both, but I'm on my first marriage and it's lasted for 21 years. PSTD tested it pretty hard, but everything held.
I always joke that I don't have enough energy to train up a new husband, but I'm thankful every day that I've had with my hubby.
Lisa | 
28-01-2008, 08:31 AM
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Posts: 3,141
| | Only once......OMG Herc...Lasted 7 years too. 7 years of hell... Thanks but NO THANKS. Would rather live alone till the day die.... | 
28-01-2008, 11:46 AM
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Posts: 1,356
| | I'm on my 2nd marriage. First one lasted 8 weeks. Now we've been together 10 years - the longest time each of us has been in a relationship. | 
28-01-2008, 11:57 AM
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Posts: 260
| | As I said in one of threads, my 2nd I got married on my birthday and 8 years later divorced on D day. Always celebrate the divorce. Sorry about the poll, i thought I was doing it never have before. I will learn.
sunnydaze | 
28-01-2008, 12:00 PM
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Posts: 260
| | Grama-herc Too funny on the 7 years. They say if you get past the 7 yr. itch, you might make something long lasting. It didn't help I waited and gave it an extra year. Sorry about the poll mix up
sunnydaze | 
28-01-2008, 12:28 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Netherlands Antilles
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| | Sunnydaze, I added a poll for you. I hope the options are as you wanted. | 
28-01-2008, 12:51 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: New Mexico, USA
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| | married once, but in love many times. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
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