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View Poll Results: How Many Times Have You Been Married?
Once. 21 42.86%
Twice. 11 22.45%
Three or more times. 5 10.20%
I have never been married. 12 24.49%
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Old 28-01-2008, 04:21 AM
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I am on my 3rd and finally got it right. The 1st was right but I was to immature to appreciate what I had till, I lost him. Second was a nightmare surely made me appreciate 3rd.
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Old 28-01-2008, 06:42 AM
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My marraiges

I have had 4 and seenm to be stuck on the number 7! 1st one lasted 7 months, 2nd one lasted 7 years, 3rd lasted 7 months and the last one--biggest disaster of all 7 weeks! I was single between # 3 and #4 for 13 years. #4 was a scam artist who was of the impression there was money around. He thought he had a pigeon with $$$$$ Boy was the joke on him! LMAO He saw me and my weakness and I'm sure I was acting emotionally needy

He was a true con artist cuz he even fooled my mother and that is hard to do! It didn't take me long to catch on and I threw his ass out in a big hurry.

My therapist has given me permission to not have men in my life. Which is ok with me. Besides, if I get the urge for a man in my life I'll just get another cat.

Someday I will go into the other 3 marriages and what they were all about
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Old 28-01-2008, 07:17 AM
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Where's the poll part? Anyways, I have never been married, yet... I hope though that when I do get married it is the first and last time, like my parents!! It sounds tough to be married more than once.
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I've been very lucky or I married the right man first time out...or both, but I'm on my first marriage and it's lasted for 21 years. PSTD tested it pretty hard, but everything held.

I always joke that I don't have enough energy to train up a new husband, but I'm thankful every day that I've had with my hubby.

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Only once......OMG Herc...Lasted 7 years too. 7 years of hell... Thanks but NO THANKS. Would rather live alone till the day die....
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I'm on my 2nd marriage. First one lasted 8 weeks. Now we've been together 10 years - the longest time each of us has been in a relationship.
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As I said in one of threads, my 2nd I got married on my birthday and 8 years later divorced on D day. Always celebrate the divorce. Sorry about the poll, i thought I was doing it never have before. I will learn.
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Too funny on the 7 years. They say if you get past the 7 yr. itch, you might make something long lasting. It didn't help I waited and gave it an extra year. Sorry about the poll mix up
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Sunnydaze, I added a poll for you. I hope the options are as you wanted.
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married once, but in love many times.
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