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Old 01-02-2008, 08:11 PM
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Hi. I'm new here and thought I'd check things out. I hope this can be a safe place to learn new things and meet others.

My DH and I both have been Dxed with PTSD, and our daughter has 'Chronic PTSD' though I'm not sure what the difference is.

Our son was brutally murdered in 06 and our daughter found his body. He was only 2.

It's really only the tip of the iceberg, but it's hit us all really hard. I hope I/we can find support and maybe even help others.
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Old 01-02-2008, 09:51 PM
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Hi babusmom, welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about your situation, never a good thing that outcome. Your safe here... know that.
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Old 01-02-2008, 09:55 PM
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Welcome to the forum... I am so sorry that you have had to go through the loss of your son in such a terrible way. That must have been awful....
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Old 02-02-2008, 07:10 AM
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Whatever God's plans are, he keeps it a secret, but I've come to the conclusion that he takes who he does, for whatever reason. Working in a doctors office which entail all areas of medicine, I, having lost my father and brother to huntington's disease, I say to myself, God even takes baby angels, angels of any age.
We can never know the why's while still on this planet, but to know that my family and friends are so eternally loved in heaven, and that all the bad that happened pre-death are all erased, replaced by loves eternal warmth, and no pain remains from the cause.
I feel your pain, I wish we all came with a book of instructions, but since we do not, thanks to Anthony, we have this forum to be amongst others whos hearts have felt dark pains.
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Old 02-02-2008, 10:14 AM
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I am very sorry to hear about your tragic loss. This is a wonderful site for help and support. I hope you can feel safe here. It's taken me a couple of months but I finally do. Welcome.
Take care, Morgan
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This is horror. God is merciful, and I like to believe that He takes the child's soul into His arms before the act is committed. I pray that He eases your pain.
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I am truly sorry for your loss. He was your baby. I hope you can find comfort in this forum. I lost my step-son at 23 years old who was murdered. It happened 8 years ago and I still suffer. I can only imagine a baby.
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Old 07-02-2008, 05:42 AM
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Oh...my heart aches for you. This is a safe place.
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