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Old 08-02-2008, 03:51 PM
 
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Hi, i wrote before, but don't know where the post went. I just need to know that I am not alone. My hubby has been having PMS for over a month, his PTSD is outrageous, i need to know how to deal with it correctly. He refuses to go see someone, only when his command or i suggest it. I am pretty sure he doesn't tell them all that is going on, or else he wouldn't have been diagnosed with a 'slight' case of ptsd, that will work itself out. His anger scares me, and i am afraid for our child which is 5yrs old. HE blames it on me, stating that when i tell him to go to bed cause he is so tired, he says its a trick, that later i will yell at him for not spending time with us. I am loosing all my marbles!!! I was in the ER the other night, and he had no sympathy that i was in horrible pain and basically refused to watch my son, stating he was 'in and out of sleep' the entire time. When I got out, after being druged up, he asked me if i could drive!

I just don't know what to do anymore, i feel i am going crazy trying to keep my marriage of 6yrs, and my son alive.
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Hello Pastrychef and welcome to the forum once more. Your first post was not lost; it was moved to the Carer's section, you will find it there. Here is the link:

Any Spouses of Soldiers Here?

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Hi Pastrychef, Welcome!

Just thought I'd make sure I welcomed you. Hope you find the answers and support you want and are looking for.


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