Midi,
You are right on. People all have their dysfunctional coping mechanisms and issues. We have a brain injury, a physical malfunction. It is not an 'issue.' I've had 'friends' say if I just go for walks, work fulltime, etc etc.......I'll be fine. Sorry, doesn't work that way and if they can't accept that..........it's because of their own issues and I get them out of my life quickly.
I think if and when we do decide to share with someone our condition, it is our obligation to explain the facts to them, as I have done with several trusted friends about my disorder.

I've written a book, which some of my friends have read. It helps them to understand that mental illness has nothing to do with character, strength or weakness. I believe they truly understand this and this, for me, is empowering in the sense that I've removed the stigma from a couple of people on the planet. Compassion is what will help to heal us, and them.

In conclusion; I've found myself stigmatizing myself throughout the first few years of my therapy. I've gotten over this and will never abuse myself like that again. It only serves to damage me more. Nor will I allow anyone in my life who holds these views. I think this is what we can do in our little corners of the world to initiate change.

ps. I agree with the derogitory word thing. 'Crazy' should be reserved for people who are truly ignorant and hurt others with their selfishness and greed and perversion. They are truly the ones who need to pray for help from something larger than themselves, for I truly believe in karma.