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Old 04-03-2008, 02:19 PM
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Long srory short...I moved feb16 2008. Very, Very stressful. The house was up for sale and he promised the house would be taken off of the market and he was NOT going to sell it but keep it for a rental proerty. Now the stupid MF ** says the for sale sign is going back up but he is going to try and rent it with tenamts. Lie WTF/// I don't have a leg to stand on and we didn't sign a lease because he was my roommates friend (wel x now). I just paid 3000.oo since the end of novemeber and i am on disability. All the hook up charrges, expenses, getting a truck, all the people in and out of my home, trying to move when i can hardly fing walk right now. I am so upset. I just can't beleive this is happening again!
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Old 04-03-2008, 02:20 PM
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ooops sorry it was Jan 16....my mind is in overdrive.
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Old 05-03-2008, 04:27 AM
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I'm sorry Pandora, I really am. I wish I had some kind of answer or magic wand or something for you. I can only say try to hang in there! Don't be too discouraged maybe there's something better for you waiting around the corner. Don't let that asshole get the better of you!

I'll be thinking about you in the meantime and send you my positive vibes that you can get through this okay.

Take care of yourself, Morgan
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Old 05-03-2008, 05:29 AM
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Pand,

Is there anything legal that you can do??? This just seems so unfair. I'm not sure about the laws in Canada, but I certainly would try and find out if I were you... Check online or see if you have some kind of tenants rights book. I know we do here in the states.

I would do whatever I had to, this guy is a jerk!!!!!!
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Old 05-03-2008, 06:37 AM
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Sorry to read about your situation Pandora. It must be very upsetting for you. Please take care.
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I'm not sure about the legal rights in your area but I don't think he can just kick you out like that.

If there is no law to protect you then I would make sure the house looks a wreck when potential buyers come and look at it. I would tell them the plumbing is always backed up and the hot water heater is ready to go out and that the gas pipe has a leak and on and on and on. Anything you can think of that is wrong with the house tell the potential buyers about it. If you had a problem with rodents, bad neighbors just keep thinking of all the negative things wrong with it to keep anyone from wanting to buy it.

Run them off anyway you can because he deserves it since he lied to you.

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Sorry to hear that pandora, I've been there and it's no fun. Hope it works out...
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Pand, the law is 60 days written notice for eviction. Unless you have that, you don't have to leave and this includes the new owners. Just because the house is being sold, doesn't mean you have to move out. Have you received notice, or are you panicking?

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tee hee !!!! ( I like tammy's suggestion ) but I'm partially evil.
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I'm not sure about the legal rights in your area but I don't think he can just kick you out like that. If you had a problem with rodents, bad neighbors just keep thinking of all the negative things wrong with it to keep anyone from wanting to buy it.

Run them off anyway you can because he deserves it since he lied to you.

Good luck!
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and don't forget the roaches. Lots and Lots of Roaches. Big Ones.

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