Finally, Some Good News!

heartbroken · #1 05-05-2008, 09:45 AM

Today we took the kids to the zoo, and I demanded that James leave his work phone AND his personal cell at home so no one could bother him. He had a fantastic day! Got a little grumpy for about three minutes during lunch, but then he apologized and was great for the rest of the day! I don't want to get my hopes up, but is it possible that all he needs is something active to do that isn't military related? He came home afterwards and went outside to cut the grass, and didn't once complain about it! Usually he sits in front of his playstation all day on Sundays, which I think may make it worse. Anyone else experienced this? Should I just try to drag him out of the house on his days off? I can't remember the last time he was this happy!

Olly · #2 06-05-2008, 12:41 AM

Hey :)
Erm i know that for me if i can just forget about things somehow then i can feel alot better. Going out on days can work great, if i feel angry, upset etc, then its a nice relief that i can distract myself by doing something fun with my time.
I think its a great idea that the phone was left at home, i know as a teenager my phone is really important, but in the past it has been a cause stress. So yeah, thats a brilliant idea, it gives you space and lets you just focus on other things.

I think it varies alot, some days may differ form others, but as an overall thing i would definitely approve your idea, i think it can really work