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| | Notices | Welcome to PTSD Forum. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a life threatening, debilitating disorder that can break down a sufferer’s body through anxiety and stress. Further it poses a significant suicide risk resulting from the brains neurological imbalance and chemical depression. Sufferers often live in denial, thus this community is aimed at helping PTSD sufferers help themselves through others experiences, guidance and education. We are here for the sufferer, spouse and families surrounding PTSD. Spouses and family are too often forgotten in this equation, and often they receive all the worst that PTSD has to offer. If you're involved in any way with PTSD, get registered and help yourself now. Non-active members will eventually be deleted. If you are not a sufferer, carer or someone within the mental health industry, and active, then there is little reason for you to be a member of this forum. Non-active members with zero posts are deleted periodically during the year. |  | | 
27-06-2008, 05:40 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S.A. Kansas
Posts: 3,540
| | How Do I Put A Pet Down? The companion from day one for a decade. She pisses herself, lays around unaware... She hurts. How do I end it without being selfish? I cry as she gets up to walk tonight and falls. She has for months. | 
27-06-2008, 05:48 PM
|  | | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: Colorado
Posts: 539
| | When I was a kid, we would take them out back and shoot them. It was hard. But it had to be done. I suggest you go to a vet and consult with them. The few dollars it may cost are worth it if you ask me. If they have a painless way for your pet to die with dignity, all the better. The way we did it is not dignified. | 
27-06-2008, 05:53 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S.A. Kansas
Posts: 3,540
| | Thanks CJ for being blunt. I would be lying if I said I did not post hoping for a magic bullet so to speak. Just she has been here twice as long as PTSD has been effective. I cried so hard tonight holding her tonight as she is acting as she is leaving me very soon, scary. I am 34 and she has been here since 23. | 
27-06-2008, 08:12 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Ma
Posts: 2,812
| | Veiled,
I know how hard it is to put your pet down, but in the end it's the humane thing to do.... *hugs* | 
27-06-2008, 08:30 PM
|  | | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: Colorado
Posts: 539
| | Veiled, I wasn't saying it to hurt you. I'm sorry if it did. | 
27-06-2008, 09:35 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Florida, USA
Posts: 1,154
| | I hurt for you and have been here, so I know. All I can tell you is that it IS the kindest thing you will ever do for her.
I can also say that SHE will let you know when it is time. She will look into your eyes and into your soul and then you will know. Have you ever heard of the rainbow bridge?
If not, google it. Your answer is there. Praying for you and I'm here if you need me | 
27-06-2008, 10:02 PM
|  | | | Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 937
| | I'm so sorry veiled. It's hard to see our pets suffer. When I have had to put them down, I never felt selfish--on the contrary, I think it is the final, most loving act we can do for our pets, to let them slip painlessly from a difficult life. Vets will let you hold them and talk to them as they are euthanized. It's awful, it's horrible, but if they are suffering, it's the most compassionate thing we can do.
I'm thinking of you. | 
28-06-2008, 12:50 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 97
| | Hi Veiled,
In April our cat Monty was showing signs that he wasn't well, he had lost weight, and passing lot's of urine ect ect..He was 16yrs old.I became more and more anxious about is it time or not..what is the right thing to do...was I just giving up on him...but I had to come to some decision and had to do something.I rang the Vet and she said to bring him in. He was alot sicker than I realised. He had multiple problems, one being kidney disease.The vet was so compassionate,I stayed will she put him to sleep.
Veiled, prior to seeing the vet I felt that I was being selfish, but now I know that it was the kind and compassionate choice. | 
28-06-2008, 01:23 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: USA
Posts: 96
| | Vieled,
This is a hard and painful time... Thoughts and prayers are with you and your pet.
Tachiku | 
28-06-2008, 02:08 AM
|  | | | Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: New Mexico, USA
Posts: 845
| | The humane socity offers this service in an injection. All vets do too, but they can cost $300 to do it. I would think that because the humane society is non-profit, they would be less expensive.
I am going to get my cats cremated and put with me and my husband when we are cremated. Maybe the cremation place could recommend a caring vet who will come to the house and do it.
Either way, we all will be crying with you. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
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