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View Poll Results: Are One or More of Your Carers Also Members or Readers of this Forum?
Yes, Do have carer(s) who participate or read on this forum 4 17.39%
No, Do not have carer(s) who participate or read on this forum 19 82.61%
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Old 01-08-2008, 12:30 PM
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Default Are One or More of Your Carers also Forum Members or Readers?

I was just wondering how many of those with PTSD have a carer (spouse, significant other, friend, parent, etc.) who is either a member of the forum or at least reads the forum posts and info.

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Ace

P.S. This was just meant to be a 2-option poll (yes/no), but I don't believe that it's been attached to the thread. I'll add it if I can (through editing); otherwise, perhaps an administrator could attach the poll option? Sorry about the inconvenience.

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Old 14-09-2008, 08:18 AM
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My husband Jim and I were very active upon this forum for approximately a years' time, whilst our daughter Evie (batgirl) frequented the forum. Our son (Sapper) also popped in occasionally. Our daughter very much appreciated the support, though I think we annoyed her at times! We learned a great deal as well. It is truly a win-win situation, not to mention, it fosters honesty in all members of the family! As a carer or a sufferer, it is not so easy to exaggerate, tell half-truths or seek unneccessary sympathy with family members present! I highly recommend families becoming involved as much as possible.

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Old 14-09-2008, 11:09 AM
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I voted on Anthony's behalf as I am here as his Carer.
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Old 16-09-2008, 06:32 AM
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I voted no. None of my carers, including my wife are members or read the forum. This is a place of solitude for me, a place to find answers and my thoughts are mine. Whether it is in the open board or not, it is another therapy tool for me to use at my discretion; if any of them were to be on here, then it would feel as if they were watching me and pushing me to participate. Healing is at my pace, not at a pace any one else can set.
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I just started treatment therefore I do not know all of my new carers. However I know my family don't even know I'm on the sight.
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Old 16-09-2008, 11:48 AM
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if any of them were to be on here, then it would feel as if they were watching me and pushing me to participate. Healing is at my pace, not at a pace any one else can set.
Its sad you think your carers would push you in that way. I must admit in the earlier days being here helped me understand a lot more about what Anthony was going through while giving me a place to talk with people who were in a similar position to me.

I do agree Healing is at your pace.....
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I voted no because even though I asked my mom to join the forum or just read around a bit and she said yes, she still hasn't done it. They don't get it and they don't want to get it. That's just the way it is around here.
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My hubbby thinks it's important for me to have my own "spaces" and I like that, therefore, he is not a member. I have printed off certain information for him to read from the site, but that's it.
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i think i'd censor myself if people i knew showed up.
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Even though I voted no.....there are times I wish I had a carer that understood, knew all of the BAD things and still was around but i have mentioned this to a few people but I really do not have a carer...I am my carer.
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