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Old 21-08-2008, 01:56 PM
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I'm wondering how many digger's wives and/or children/grandchildren visit this forum? I have lots of questions about how Vietnam affected relationships over the past 40 years to now. Please respond.
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I dated/lived with a man for 7 yrs that was in Vietnam. He had PTSD, refused treatment. ( I did't know at the time I too had PTSD) It was a hard relationship. He has lived in denial for most of his adult life. Fled to Germany after the war, never told his family where he was for 20 yrs, till he came back, we met and I forced him to call his family.

The relationship ended 15 yrs ago, we remained friends until a yr ago. I ended it. He has become so mean, hateful, angry, and argumentative that walking away was the only choice I had. I miss the person I knew that he could be, but hated the person that he was...
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