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/agrees with Kerrie-Ann on this one.
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I can appreciate you opinion Kerrie and Kells. I too thought infidelity would be an automatic "walk" in my marriage. Hopefully neither of you will be put to that test.

When I consider my wife's normal behavior and some of the things she has done recently, a serious mental issue is the most sensible answer. This is a woman who was shy about her well endowed chest and constantly wore sweaters to cover herself. Then bango!! She photographing herself nude and exchanging pics on the Internet! I'm pretty sure that something besides desire is at work here.
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Im,

That's fine. I certainly agree that there probably is more at work here. All I was trying to say is that we need to keep our boundaries clear when dealing with PTSD. Its easy to be clouded in their issues, needs and wants and forget our own........to our own detriment. Sometimes I wonder if I have lost 'me' and even my family/friends tell me that I have changed. I agree but I don't think all of that can be attributed to living with a partner and PTSD. At least in my case some of it has been a deliberate attempt to grow personally.
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